{Sensible} Questions to Ask Before Arranged Marriage to Girls by Guys

Questions to Ask Before Arranged Marriage to Girls by Guys- In India and as per the Indian customs people go for arrange marriage. The best part about arrange marriage is meeting the girl for the first time. There are butterflies in your tummy and goose bumps all over your body. Nothing could be more awkward than meeting the girl you are going to marry for the first time. The meeting is arranged by none other than our parents. There is trend of sending them for a walk. You have to judge the girl in just 15-20 minutes and same will be the case from her side. The great saying, first impression is the last impression works here. You wish to make an impact on that girl. Communication is the only skill she will judge you on. All you want to do is know the girl in that short span of time. The following ideas will help the conversation between you two go smoothly interesting.

Arranged Marriage Questions
Arranged Marriage Questions

Questions to Ask Before Arranged Marriage

Start it simple: Note that even the girl is going through the same nervousness as you are. To break this start with the simple questions. Best is to ask her like and dislikes. What irks her or what soothes her. In the same manner tell her about yours. With the start of the conversation you will get to know whether the girl is shy. In this way you will get to know what kind of person she is with her list of likes and dislikes.

Ask her about her studies: Next topic to keep the conversation going on is to ask her about her studies and career goals. Tell her about your studies and goals in return. Show interest in her career. She will take his in a positive way and girls like when guys take interest in things they do.

Hobbies: Hobbies are the next thing to stress upon. With her choices of hobbies you will get to know what kind of person she is.

Get to know her way of living: In this you will get to know her lifestyles. Ask her about her favourite pass time or places she like to hang out in her free time. Know about her social circles and friends. Well, don’t be an intruder on the very first day. Wait she opens up. Tell her about yours in return. These small things will help you decide if she is ‘your kind’ or not.

Question to Ask Before Arranged Marriage to Girls
Question to Ask Before Arranged Marriage to Girls

About her parents: Ask her about her duties towards her parents after marriage. Most of the girls wish to support their parents financially even after their marriage. This will be your decision and give some more time to yourself on this topic.

Her expectations: The purpose of your meet lies in this question. Ask her about her expectations about marriage and from her future husband. This question will help you understand her nature and personality in a better way. Don’t forget to tell her about your expectations.

Light-hearted questions: After all the brain storming sessions about expectations and duties time for some light hearted questions. Ask her about the latest movie she watched or about her childhood. Ask her about the places she wishes to go at least once before she dies. Casual question about her school life and college life will also work. Ask her about what kind of clothing she like, this will help you to know what kind of person she is.

Questions to Ask Before Arranged Marriage
Questions to Ask Before Arranged Marriage

Don’t act stupid: Not everything we have decided goes according to the plan. Guys do act stupid questions at times. Avoid asking whether she is a virgin. Don’t even think of asking her about her Facebook friends or number of boyfriends she had before. Stay away from asking questions about her salary and bank-balance, please note that it is none of your business. And lastly don’t even think of asking her about her monthly cycles. Asking these stupid questions will put you down her list.

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